heyborly

For gay men who want more friends nearby

Talk first. Faces later.

Chat anonymously with guys around you. Keep the conversation going, and when you both want to, reveal who you are.

Start with a question →
Saw you answered “a long run” too. Do you run the river loop?
Every Sunday at 8. Slow pace, lots of talking.
Perfect, that's my speed.

Small Thunder and Velvet Otter have 87% in common.

Runner · Podcasts · Early riser

How it works

01

Answer a question a day

One small question every day builds your personality profile. No long quizzes.

02

Chat with people nearby

You see an alias, a rough distance and what you have in common. Nothing else.

03

Reveal when you both say yes

After a good run of messages, either of you can ask. Profiles open only if both agree.

Find someone for

Friendship
Leg day
Saturday hikes
Co-op games
Your first week in town

Today's question

Your ideal Saturday starts with…

Answer and join →

Free around you. Plus for everywhere else.

Free

Chat with people nearby, 20 new connections a week, the daily question plus 10 quiz answers a day, mutual reveal.

Plus · $20/month

Unlimited connections and personality quizzes, “Why you click” breakdowns, travel mode for chatting in other cities before you visit, quiz battles and group chats. No sponsored posts.

Plus renews monthly until you cancel. Cancel anytime from Settings. A one-time $5 ID verification badge is optional.